I sometimes hear the words ‘How do you control a horse without a bit?’, when people discover what I do. It can be confusing for people when I say I have absolutely no interest in controlling a horse. This concept is planted in most young horse enthusiasts’ minds right from the start and becomes deeply embedded. Here I present another take on the idea.
For centuries, horses have been viewed primarily as tools for labour, transportation, and sport. This perspective has fostered a mindset focused on control: breaking them into submission, training them to obey commands, and demanding compliance. However, as our understanding of equine behaviour and welfare evolves, the notion of controlling horses is increasingly recognized as outdated and ethically problematic. A shift towards partnership and respect is not only more humane but also yields better outcomes for both us and the horses.
In the wild, horses thrive in herds where they communicate and establish relationships based on trust and mutual respect. This intrinsic behaviour can be overlooked in traditional ways of being with horses that prioritize dominance and control. Rather than understanding horses as sentient beings with their own thoughts and feelings, some training approaches treat them as mere instruments to be wielded. This not only risks damaging the horse-human bond but can also lead to behavioural issues, stress, and even physical harm.
Modern research in animal behaviour highlights the importance of understanding equine cognition and emotions. Horses have complex social structures and can form strong attachments, both to other horses and to humans. By acknowledging their emotional and psychological needs, we can foster a more collaborative relationship based on trust rather than control.
Historically, training techniques often involved harsh methods designed to enforce compliance. Techniques such as the use of harsh bits, whips, spurs, tie-downs, physical punishment, and intimidation are still prevalent in some circles. However, these practices are increasingly being viewed as ethically questionable and ineffective. Such methods can lead to fear-based compliance, where the horse may perform tasks not out of willingness but rather due to fear of punishment. This not the type of relationship that I would want to be in.
Moving away from control-based methods towards a partnership model benefits not only the horses but also us. When horses are treated with respect and understanding, they are more likely to exhibit cooperative behaviour and develop a genuine bond with us. This relationship enhances communication, making training sessions more productive and enjoyable for both parties. The joy of working together in harmony is reflected in a horse’s willingness to engage and succeed, creating a more fulfilling experience for everyone.
As society becomes increasingly aware of animal welfare issues, the movement toward humane and ethical treatment of horses continues to gain traction. Organizations dedicated to promoting equine welfare advocate for training methods that emphasize compassion and understanding. Natural horsemanship techniques, which emphasize understanding the horse’s perspective, are also reshaping traditional views. These approaches prioritize emotional connections over dominance, leading to more effective training and a deeper bond between horse and handler.
The idea of controlling horses is not only outdated; it is fundamentally flawed. As we deepen our understanding of equine behaviour and welfare, it’s clear that fostering a partnership built on trust and respect leads to healthier, happier horses, and ultimately, more rewarding relationships for us. Rethinking our relationship with horses and embracing this new perspective is not just an ethical choice; it’s an approach that enriches the lives of everyone. The future of equestrian practices lies not in control, but in collaboration, marking a shift in how we view and interact with these amazing animals.
Suzy Maloney B.Eq.Sc.Dip.Couns.
Happy Horses Bitless
Considerate Horsemanship
Email: suzy@happyhorsesbitless.com
Lismore, NSW, Australia
Ph: 0401 249 263
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